How to Flirt efficiently with only 1 trait

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2 min readMay 7, 2022
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If you are single and want to mingle, you can grow as a person by practicing a single characteristic. And it is

BE HUMOROUS

First, forget about flirting let's think from a regular human perspective. Researchers observed two different men having conversations with people out in public and afterward interview the people about how they felt. Out of those 2 men, the first man is considered extremely smart but not funny at all. The second man had average intelligence and demonstrated he had a great ability to make people laugh in his conversations. The public perceived the second man as more intelligent. The reason is funny behavior or humorous attitude always helps release more dopamine in your audience's brain and that makes them feel good.

Now get back to flirting. When you exhibit similar behavior while talking to a girl, massive amounts of dopamine in her brain make them feel good. When you make someone girl feel good, that is a hugely important step in building a strong relationship between you and the girl.

HOW TO DEVELOP HUMOUR

Misdirection

You’ll realize it’s quite simple to use the idea behind this. Whatever you’re talking about that’s going one way and then saying something that goes the other way can be as easy as setting expectations. You tell a story and then flip it into something unexpected. You will look like you have great situational awareness.

Comical Observation

If you have the ability to come up with a clever or comical observation also makes you look like you’re a think-tank and charming person. If you have seen someone doing something but if you can come up with a way to look at it is different than the way that most people look and add a comical feature to it, it will definitely attract positive attention.

Confuse Expectation

Before you either talk about something that the other person expects you to say you should ask yourself what your audience expects me to say right. Once you figured out at that moment what they think you’ll say it’s simple from here on out you just need to say the exact opposite.

Use your Embarrassment to your advantage

Whenever you make a mistake in public and if you make a joke about it and laugh at your embarrassment, it will be a pretty damm attention-grabbing event. Make it more fun by doing the same mistake.

Smile More

On daily basis, all you have to do is stand in front of the mirror and smile for 20 seconds. Endorphins are released you’re smiling and it enhances your mood. That will make you recognize funny situations and make you relaxed.

A sense of humor is definitely something that can be developed. Practice the above and you will definitely win more hearts.

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